Happy Monday morning kids!

Hope you all had a lovely weekend. I also hope you showed your mother some much-deserved appreciation on Sunday. If not, call me and I will tell you why you are sucky son/daughter.

Sorry to disappoint you kids but I will not be posting my most recent round of shenanigans here today. I am simply here to pimp my latest article at The Dude Society. This was spawned from my recent relapse with Fireman in concept, although we aren't technically ex's, it got me thinking and the pros/cons still kind of apply.

Check it out, show me some comment love if you so desire, and let me know what you think!

Here is sneak peek of what is going on there:

The Hot And The Ugly: Pros And Cons Of Sex With Your Ex

by Lisa | May 9, 2011 | IN DATING & SEX

Hello Kids! Hope you are all having a lovely weekend!

You know I am all about full-disclosure here at Random Girl, and that goes for the good, the bad, and the ugly. I have to confess to you kids that I had a relapse this weekend. I had shared the last few weeks that I am trying to behave myself and dial back the shenanigans a bit and I really have. That is, until Saturday night.

After finding the perfect little party dress for a nice dinner and art exhibit opening event I was attending with friends on Saturday night, the texts began from Fireman. I know I know, I fired him for a reason. But....

I had a relapse.

We started talking again on Friday and we have been able to clear the air a bit. He apologized for the drama he created. I owned the fact that I had started having expectations that might not have been fair. We decided to just try to start over. Take it back to a place of being simple and fun, a true NSA situation like it was always intended to be.

I know this is probably not a good decision.

But I couldn't help myself.

Two weeks is a long time to be good, at least for me. And yes, I realize I am making excuses in an attempt to justify my actions.

After a nice dinner, a very bizarre art show that consisted of only paintings of naked women with many of the patrons dressed in togas and a really odd "this is about to bust into being an orgy" feel to it, my friends and I rocked out to a fantastic 80's band at one of my favorite bars. All the while I was figuring out logistics with Fireman. He was to be the cherry on the top of a very fun night for me.

He was. And then some. If I had for a moment forgotten why we got together in the first place, I was quickly reminded.

And so it begins yet again. We'll see how quickly it gets complicated this time. I can't say I don't know better because I really do but I have decided to get mixed up with him yet again. Like I have said before, that boy is like crack to me, or as Jewels would say, he is like "human catnip" to me. I love that description and it is fairly accurate.

Feel free to tell me "I told you so!" when I start complaining about it all blowing up again because let's be honest, we both know that will happen sooner rather than later. In the mean time, I will be enjoying myself.

My bestie got me this T-shirt because she said it fit me perfectly. I can't disagree. I seem to keep bringing them back into the rotation.