It is my season of love, football season. Oh and Fall. Between the two of these factors, I'm a very happy girl.
This "Soft-Core Friday" is dedicated to my men in tight white pants.... my Indianapolis Colts and The Ohio State University. As I type this, I'm watching my boy, Pierre Garcon, talking and I'm smiling just seeing his hot face on my TV screen again. It doesn't take much to make me happy.


I know when it comes to football, everyone has their team and I would never try to sway anyone to mine. But the Colts are a good team. They do good things for a lot of people off the field and that counts to me as much as how they play. Plus I look good in blue so any excuse to sport my cute blue girl jersey, I'm all about it. I am a girl after all.

For Soft-Core Friday today, I'm taking on the writing challenge from Red Writing Hood over at the new Write on Edge writer's forum. It's been a while since I have linked up there but I really liked this one. 

Welcome to another edition of "Soft-Core Friday"  here at Random Girl. This week I am taking a little different angle with it and wanted to share a very interesting survey finding from the guys over at The Good Men Project. 


The site recently conducted a poll to get a feel for if promiscuity could be measured and how people, both men and women from all different ages, backgrounds, and experiences, determined a person's propensity for promiscuity.

Interesting topic right? I thought so too!

The findings in general were a little surprising, in a good way. The majority of respondents were of the mindset that promiscuity has less to do with quantitative aspects (number of partners/timeframes/etc) and more to do with the qualitative aspects such as attitude, readiness for a relationship, intentions and the like.

Another interesting finding from the survey is that people identified themselves in some cases as "formerly promiscuous" implying that although a person may exhibit promiscuous behavior at some point in their life, they can indeed change from that behavior all together and have it be considered a thing of the past but not relevant to who they are currently.

Check out the survey and let me know what you think. Do you agree that being promiscuous is more about intentions and attitude towards encounters or is it more about the numbers for you? Can someone be promiscuous at one part of their life but not be considered promiscuous later down the road?  I'm interested to hear your take on this!

Hey kids, Happy Friday! I'm not here today, or for the next few days as I have jetted off to a not-so-exotic destination for a long weekend.

I thought today I would take a humorous spin on my normally racy "Soft-Core Friday" posting. It's my blog, I'll do as I please, thank you very much.

I was standing at the pharmacy waiting on an RX recently and happened to take a glance over to my left. And what do I see?  These two books, side by side on the shelf.

Coincidence? I think not!


It's like the "chicken or the egg" argument in my opinion, do you deal with screwed-up people because you date online or do you date online because you deal with screwed up people.... I'm going to mull this one over for the weekend. Any thoughts on this?

Happy Friday, and better yet, happy "Soft-Core Friday" here at Random Girl.

So for this "Soft-Core", I thought I would take a look at taking an online friendship to the real world. And yes, there is a reason I'm talking about this now.

The stars have aligned and an interesting opportunity has presented itself. This opportunity consists of me meeting up with a fellow blogger. Of the male variety. In a very fun city. For an entertaining night on the town.  I hope fear shenanigans may ensue.

I am the first one to go head first into a new adventure so I am looking quite forward to this little meet up. After a little planning (all of which he has coordinated impressively enough) and a multi-hour drive for one of us and a plane ride for the other (he was going there anyways, seeing me is just a huge awesome bonus), we seem to be all set to have a blast. We will be combining our respective friend groups and rolling out to a music festival and then to a bar for some sort of celebration for some unknown person. Whatever. It doesn't matter. Any night out with Randy is a good night....am I right?!?

So here's to adventure, kids! Not saying it will be "Soft-Core" in the traditional sense of the phrase so don't go getting all excited (yes, I'm talking to you. You know who you are!). I plan on behaving myself for the most part in keeping with my "dial it back summer" program. But he does already have some inside scoop on what I like so I might be in for trouble...

Happy "Soft-Core" Friday to my randoms!  I'm hoping that this week has treated you well and that you have had at least a few fantastic moments to propel you through.

I spend most Fridays telling you what I think is sexy and "Soft-Core" Friday worthy. From condom puppets to sex torsos to smoking hot babes that can dance like no other, I have run the spectrum from awesome to bizarre and I appreciate you coming along for the ride.

Today, I would love to take a different spin on it. I want to know what YOU think is "Soft-Core" Friday worthy.   What turns you on, intrigues you, is bizarre enough to capture your interest??

Share kids! Today is all about you!

Well, almost. You know it is really always all about me... but all I'm contributing today is a video. This video offering dating advice may help explain why my dating life just hasn't worked out so hot thus far....it seems I have been going about things all wrong! Ladies, listen up!!

I will give these "tips" a try this weekend and let you know how it works out for me... I expect GREAT things to come from it, probably even a marriage proposal or two!

Happy "Soft-Core" Friday kids!

My apologies for not coming up with a new post for you all. I spent my Thursday riding roller coasters that rocked my face off, laughing way too much with a best friend, and in general acting like a 14 year old. It was fantastic and much needed.

For today's "Soft-Core" post, I thought I would revisit one of my very early, and still most popular, posts since most of you weren't following Random Girl around when it came out the first time. This post led to some fantastic comments and conversation and I think it warrants being revisited for all my new Random Girl friends.
The link to the original post and comments is here. Go check it out to see the all the rowdiness it stirred up! It also resulted in one my popular posts to date at The Dude Society. That article can be found here.

Shut Up and Pull My Hair
If there was one thing I could say that would sum up how I best liked to be "loved", it would have to, beyond any doubt, be "Shut Up and Pull My Hair!"

That can be taken literally.

My favorite single bestie and I were lamenting one evening over how complicated guys make it with us. We are not that complicated. If you pay attention even a little bit, you should have a clue. But many don't. We need a T-shirt with that simple instruction on it. Life would be so much easier.

Let me break it down for you. It's about finding the right mix of anticipation and aggression. Once you have been green-lighted, and you will know if you have been green-lighted (trust me on that), it's time to handle it.

I don't want to be asked if you can kiss me. I want you to look at me, really look at me, like a look that tells me I am about to be in very big trouble. Then I want you to push me up against the wall, pin my hands above my head, and kiss me like you mean it. If I respond favorably, and I most likely will to a kiss like that, keep doing it. And feel free to run your hands through my hair and give it a nice firm, prolonged tug. No really. Do it please.

It's that easy, really. A kiss like that leaves no room for questions or shyness. The intentions are clear.

That friends, is what the "Shut Up and Pull My Hair" sentiment is really all about.


I have to put the disclaimer out there that this approach may not be appropriate for all women.  And never, under any circumstances, consider doing this if the green-light moment has not arrived. This could scare the shit of a meek and mild manner second-virginity type of lady and I don't want to be responsible for that so use your very best judgement ok guys? And, when in doubt or if totally clueless, ask her how she likes to be kissed.

But, and I think you ladies will agree (since most of you are fellow freaks in the blogworld), most women really want to be kissed like this and the rewards will be very....enjoyable...  for you men brave enough to just "Shut Up and Pull My Hair".

I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Guys and ladies alike. Don't be shy kids.... 

Photocredit: http://www.123rf.com/photo_884737_portrait-of-a-young-couple-kissing-and-hugging.html

Ever heard one of those true life stories that makes you think "Damn, that is hot! For real???"  Well this is one of those. 

Soft-Core Friday is once again upon us. Just one more reason why Friday is the most kick-ass day of the work week...am I right kids? 

I am usually the first one to applaud some scandalous shenanigans between consenting adults. I am certainly not one to rain on any one's parade when it comes to that.  But I have to tell you, this trends seems to be getting a little out of control.

As you may recall, my last "Soft-Core" Friday post was about the "lewd twitter pic" allegedly from Rep. Anthony Weiner to one of his Tweeps.  Well again today, yet another "lewd" (their words not mine because his pecs are HOT) photo surfaced, allegedly of the Rep. yet again. Add to that the John Edwards plea agreement for his using campaign funds to hide his mistress and resulting love-child. Add to that Arnold and his housekeeper and that love child. Add to that the IMF chief allegedly assaulting the hotel maid. Add to that...... you get where I am going with this right?

Now I am not naive enough to think that I should expect a certain level of ethics or moral standard from my elected political officials/presidential candidates/financial institution gurus but really.... should I expect so little? My main issue is not even so much that the guys are sending pics of their junk all over the twitterverse or hiding mistresses and love children, is that they make such a concerted effort to avoid/evade/deny being found out.

If you do the dirt, then just own it. Don't waste our time, money, and news coverage with denials, avoidances, and smoke screens. Don't put your families through more hurt and pain than the acts themselves would have caused had you just come clean to start with.

Very few people walk around this earth without a sin or two or without having been guilty of using poor judgement once in a while. You will gain much more respect and maintain some shred of credibility if you just own what you are, a flawed person who exhibited bad judgement, and accept the consequences with grace. Who can't relate to that?

**Update: as of 4:25 est Monday 6/6/11, Rep Weiner held a press conference to finally come clean, admit the pics are of him and he sent them and cried with "great regret for the pain he had caused".  Better late than never dude. Nothing like dragging this out for a week when it could have been done and over with the truth when it broke a week ago, just sayin'  **

As I was scrambling to figure out a "Soft-Core" Friday post late Thursday night (since the Monday holiday really F'd my whole weekly thinking up) one topic just begged to be featured: Anthony Weiner's Twitter pic/hacking scandal.

As much as I want this to just go away because I am sick of hearing about it, it just won't. If I had a dollar for each time I heard a newscaster suppress a grade-school giggle as they made some sort of juvenile, innuendo filled segue this week, I could put my princess through college. For reals.

If you have been living under a rock, the basic storyline is that Rep. Weiner has a twitter pic of what is supposedly his package sent to a young college co-ed who he followed on Twitter.

This is just too good to not blow up into a huge scandal right? Well, yes and no. The interesting part is that he is not denying that it is his weiner in the picture, he has claimed that he "can't with certitude say it isn't me".  Instead, he takes the angle that his account was hacked and the photo, if it is him, was taken out of context. Hmm... interesting explanation.

Either way, I don't care in the least. I am just tired of hearing "weiner/Weiner" in any context. Are you with me?? And seriously, based on this alleged twitter pic of his that started all of this craziness...well, you know... it truly is NO BIG DEAL. Let's move on kids.


Here is a link to my girl Rachel Maddow's interview with him. She is beyond quality and does her homework.
http://www.mediaite.com/tv/rep-weiner-tells-maddow-twitter-photo-maybe-started-out-being-a-photo-of-mine/

For a funny take on it, check out Jon Stewart's coverage on the story. He is having an angel/devil battle over reporting it with a hilarious musical accompaniment. Don't miss this!



On another note, I had the privilege of catching this sight first hand while at The Palms Ditch Friday pool party last week. And in honor of yet another relapse with my fireman recently, thought I would share for my girls to get a little "Soft-Core" Friday eye candy. You are welcome ladies!

It's time for another "Soft-Core" Friday here at Random Girl....yahooooo!!!

And really, who knows sexy better than the angels of Victoria's Secret? Well, other than me of course....

Recently, Victoria's Secret announced the 2011 What Is Sexy list. This list includes categories such as "Sexiest Curves", "Sexiest Legs", "Sexiest Eyes", etc... you get the idea. Basically it is a bunch of hot girls being talked about by a bunch of super hot girls. Boys, this one's for you.

Victoria's Secret 2011 What Is Sexy List


Now, if you will excuse me, it's almost the weekend.... I have to go pick out which of Victoria's Secrets I will be sharing with one of my lucky guy this weekend....

Happy Friday Kids!

I will not be deterred by Blogger's cock-blocking attempt. Soft-Core Friday will carry on, even it means doing yet another post for it. Suck it Blogger!

I know I have been a little heavy on the man-love lately here at Soft-Core so this week it is for the fellas. Ready for some wicked hotness of the female variety??

If so, click here and behold the hotness of Maxim's Hot 100 list.

I may not agree with all their picks, but hey, they can't all be as hot as Random Girl right?? It's a shame, I know!

I won't be putting up any pics here out of fear respect of copyright issues but take a minute, click the link, and enjoy the direct route to super sexy that I have given you.

Happy Friday kids! I know how much you look forward to "Soft-Core" here at Random Girl and I am more than happy to keep giving it you. I'm awesome like that.

You already know that Randy is a big fan of the tall, dark, and sexy types. Give me a guy that can make me laugh my ass off in addition to the T/D/S combo and I may just fall in love. Seriously.

So how happy was I to stumble upon Colin Kane? If you haven't heard of him already, you will soon. Let me just give you the lowdown on this guy and what makes him "Soft-Core Friday" worthy here at Random Girl.

First, he is dead sexy. Ladies.... look at him. I dare you to argue with me on this.
Sorry guys, I know I am going to get a "nothing to see here" from OT but stay with me, everyone could use a laugh right??







Secondly, he is really fucking funny. Not like "a little giggle here and there" funny, but like "laugh your ass off at his inappropriate greatness" funny. Even Dennis Miller thinks so, so you know he's legit. Check out his website to catch one of his upcoming shows or see more of his ass him in action. Or you can stalk him on twitter like I do @colinkane

This video gives you just a little taste of what he has to offer. Ladies, be prepared to have naughty thoughts about what you would do to him in a dark corner. Guys, just enjoy the laugh and try to not notice how damn pretty he is.

Happy Friday Kids! Time for another Soft-Core Friday here at Random Girl.

Most of you have probably figured out by now that music comes in a close 2nd on my list of favorite things. You can probably guess what #1 is. Think real hard.

This week's Soft-Core Friday pick combines both, plus the smoking hot Leto brothers as I am feeling extra self-serving this week because I have behaved so well. Don't worry boys, there is plenty for you to enjoy in this too.

It gets a little edgy and  leaves little to the imagination so consider yourselves warned and don't watch it at work or around children. There is an even more scandalous Director's cut version of the video on Vevo if you are interested. Here is the link to that one http://v.vevo.com/kSv

Enjoy "Hurricane" by my recently reignited band lover 30 Seconds To Mars

Happy Friday yet again kids! It has been a busy week for Random Girl.

The good news is, I have recovered from my weekend hijynx and have done nothing scandalous the entire week....so far. Or is that bad news? Either way, I am behaving myself just like I said I would.

The bad news is, I have been too busy writing for other places to really put a lot into my Soft-Core Friday post but never fear, I promise this is beyond HOT! It features Heather Morris from Glee but don't let that deter you, she is super sexy and moves like hers really are porn.

http://bcove.me/xwl5xypp





Also, I received the "Nice Rack" award from my good buddy OT over at Make Daddy A Sammich. Somehow I keep getting this honor despite my small but perky pair. The girls and I thank you OT!
Now the rules keep getting changed because the boys are playing now so of course the pic of my rack is considered mandatory, not sure how that happened. I am a girl of some discretion (quit laughing now) so I am reposting one that has been seen once before but you all seemed to like it then. Enjoy!

And as if getting recognized for my nice rack was flattering enough, sweet and sexy Lexi from Lex In the City passed her "One Lovely Blog Award" on to me recently. She is a doll and if you aren't following her, you totally should be because she is as sassy as she is sexy and has a lot of cool collections....right Lex?



Hope you kids have a fantabulous Easter Weekend. I make no promise to post over the holiday since it is Holy and all and I might feel a wee bit guilty if I distract you all with my nonsense.  XOXO!

Happy Friday Kids! Time for another "Soft-Core Friday" here at Random Girl. I know you much you look forward to Fridays just because of this right?!?

So I must admit I am feeling kind of lazy on this one so I let Cosmopolitan.com do the work for me this time.
They claim that there are a few wacky things that we don't know about porn. I think some of you could prove them wrong but this is what they say:

***WARNING** NOT BE READ AT WORK OR BY ANYONE WHO IS SQUEAMISH...SERIOUSLY****

Welcome to "Soft-Core Friday" at Random Girl. I know how you kids look forward to this every week.
I must warn you though, this week is more hard than soft, hard to understand that is. Or maybe it's just me.

I at some point started following @SexToysRock on Twitter. Not surprising for those of you who follow me I know. So when I saw a sex toy tweet about my homestate girl, Bree Olson, (yes, the Charlie Sheen Goddess) I decided to click on it and see what was going on. That led me down the rabbit hole, or something like that. Next thing I know, I am seeing all sorts of sex toys that I never would have thought to think about before. One in particular caught my attention. Prepare yourselves kids, this one mystified even me. I don't even know where to begin on this.

Let's start with a picture shall we?

Are you still with me? Right. If so than you are either A) confused and slightly appalled as I was or B) turned on. I am going to be talking to the "A" crowd first. All I can say is WTF?  But wait, it gets better. Did I mention that this....thing... can be yours for the low low price of $250.33 on Amazon.com? At least there were no used ones listed because really? Eww...just ewww ok?

So if the picture is not enough for you to form an opinion from, let's take a gander at the product description shall we? Now keep in mind, this is the manufacturer's words, not mine. You can't blame this one me.

  Product Description

Sorry kids, this will be a short "Soft-Core Friday" post as I am getting ready to jet off for a fun-filled weekend in Dallas. The birthday party continues for Random Girl!

This video is the winner for today's "Soft-Core Friday" because it combines my two favorite concepts: Fireman and Lil' Wayne. The Fireman part is easy enough to figure out based on my previous posts featuring my own Fireman adventures.

The Lil' Wayne part will probably be harder for some of you to get. Hell, I don't even get it but I have mad love for all things about this man. I know, it makes no sense but it is what it is. And April 12th I will be front row to see him in all of his gansta' glory. I.Can't.Wait! Consider this the pregame.  So I guess maybe I'm the only one that will really appreciate this version of Soft Core but it is still my birthday week so I am giving this to myself as a present. Yum!

And for those of you that my not be a fan of Lil' Wayne (gasp!) I am putting in a little extra hot Firemen only montage for you to enjoy. You can thank me later ladies! Plus it's set to Kings of Leon "This Sex is On Fire" which is sexy on a whole different level.

In the immortal words one Ms. Britney Spears, Oops.. I did it again.

I was trying to ween myself off of Fireman (you all remember him right?) but alas, I have failed miserably.  I am like a crack addict when it comes to that boy. I call him a boy because I am 8 years older, soon to be technically 9 years older, than he is. Really. That is ridiculous. But it appears that I have spoiled him to the point that now he won't go away, which is OK because he has spoiled me right back if you know what I mean.

So why is this such an "Oops" situation? Because now Fireman has gone and gotten himself a girlfriend. This in and of itself is not a problem as our intention was clearly never to have a relationship beyond the bedroom (or stairs, or bathroom, or garage, or... well you get the picture) but here is where the problem lies. She is staying with him quite often. And he stills comes to see me. Like sneaks out while she is asleep. Or tells her he is sick so she leaves and then comes over.  It really is none of my business. But it kind of is right? And yet, I am OK with it, encouraging it actually. All I have to do is say the word, and he is on his way. Really.

So here is how I see this going. He will either A) feel guilty and eventually tell her or B) Get busted straight up by his girl. Either way what does that mean for me? A complete pain-in-the-ass situation? Yes, I believe it will. I should pull the plug right? I should tell him to quit being a punk and either man up or ditch his girl. But I won't. Because the sex is good and that's all I want him for. I didn't ask to become the "other woman", he created the situation so he can deal with the fall out right? I was there first.  All I can say is....BOYS!

In honor of my boy and his drama and my on-going bad decision, today's "Soft-Core Friday" video is Ms. Britneys' "BOYS"  because they are nothing but trouble for this girl!